There are mornings when the lower back wakes us before the first cup of coffee has a chance to help.
Most of us treat these moments as minor irritations—one more reminder that the body is no longer as forgiving as it once was.
And yet, every so often, a physical ache points us in the direction of something larger.
A sore back becomes a reminder that we are supported by a structure that is both ancient and personal. The sacrum, the triangular bone at the base of the spine, takes its name from the Latin word for “sacred.” It quite literally carries our weight.
Several years ago, after one such morning, I wrote this haiku.
Sacrum Sanctus
Oh, suffering back
Root, branch leaf — ancestral tree
Imprint holy bone
What began as an ache became, for a moment, a reminder.
The body carries more than muscle and bone.
It carries memory.
Family stories.
Inherited strengths.
Old wounds.
Patterns we understand and patterns we are still trying to understand.
None of us begin life as a blank slate. We arrive bearing the imprint of those who came before us—their gifts, their fears, their unfinished business, their resilience.
At times, we also suffer from living too far back in the past. Old grievances, regrets, and family stories can continue to color the present long after the original events are over.
As the years pass, many of us begin to see this inheritance more clearly.
Some of what we carry has been a blessing.
Some of it has been a burden.
Most of it is both.
Growing older offers us an opportunity our ancestors may never have had: to look honestly at what we have received, to give thanks for what was life-giving, and to loosen our grip on what no longer needs to be carried—or passed on. That work is sacred. Not because it is dramatic. But because it helps transform inheritance into wisdom.
Sometimes an aching back is just an aching back. And sometimes it is a quiet reminder that we are rooted in something older and larger than ourselves.
Question for Reflection
What have you inherited—through your family, your history, or your faith—that continues to affect the way you live today? And what, with time and grace, are you choosing to carry forward?
Invitation to Our Poets
Have you written a poem—whether last week or fifty years ago—that still speaks to you? Or perhaps you have never thought of yourself as a poet, but a few lines have been waiting for their chance to be written. It may be a haiku, a few lines scribbled in a notebook, or a reflection that came unexpectedly. Poetry does not require publication or permission. Sometimes it is simply the soul paying attention.
If you choose to reply, feel free to share your poem—or simply let me know how Sacrum Sanctus struck you. We would love to read what has been waiting to be said.
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I want to fly, to be truly free, to not be ruled by my memory
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The ignorant may well deem me deity for now I flirt with what actually be
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I kid you not, I’m not fooling around for yesterday does wear death’s gown
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Crucifixion was His untimely fate, publicly mounted at the city’s gate
Was a message there, a cold dictate to those purporting to be great
Leave the meek masses as they are, stone puppets to the current star
Blissfully content with minds ajar, contents spewing near and far
Might best I stay upon the ground in life’s demented merry-go-round
Thoughts and judgements not too sound don’t know how long I’ll be around
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(revised 21 April 2009)