Some people spend a lifetime searching for where they belong. Others simply remain. Questions of belonging in later life rarely surface all at once. They tend to emerge slowly, often in the very places where our lives have already taken shape. In rural Oregon, on land that had
When stillness becomes the teacher “In Your stillness, joyfulness is unfolding…” A reader sent us that line in response to our recent Spiritual Signals reflection, On Stillness. His poem, titled In the Quiet, reads like a prayer to solitude—not the kind that isolates, but the kind that
“Solitude is not something you must hope for in the future. Rather, it is a deepening of the present, and unless you look for it in the present you will never find it.” — Thomas Merton Turning Quiet Into a Companion Rather Than an Adversary Loneliness and
When a smile restores our sense of worth “I’m an old woman now, and smiles are so appreciated—especially when they come from younger people. So often as we age, one can feel invisible, not of much value in this busy, impersonal world. Being acknowledged in that
As we age, friendship becomes less about expansion and more about attention. This reflection explores how connection matures, deepens, and heals in later life.
What Our Solitude Is Trying to Teach Us The house stays the same now. The books on the table, the jacket on the chair, the glass by the sink—they wait. When the house was full, nothing stayed still for long. Now even the air feels stagnant.
The spaciousness, where introverts find strength within. Introverts—the quiet majority—remind us that not everyone experiences community the same way. Some of us lean into the joy of being surrounded by people. Others find that same closeness overwhelming. Both are true. Both are human. And both belong
A Bit of Fading One of our readers sent us a quiet, luminous poem after reading our recent article The Gift of Growing Smaller: Ego and Aging as Spiritual Practice. She titled her piece A Bit of Fading—and in just a few lines, she captured something